Stronger than cancer: A journey of loss, hope, and healing
Velma participating in a tree-planting initiative in April. /COURTESY
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By Velma Kisaka
In 2014, life in the Kisaka family was full of joy and celebration — my sister was getting married. But behind the smiles and laughter, my mother was silently fighting a battle she chose to keep to herself. She had been experiencing unusual bleeding, but true to her strong nature, she hid her pain from all of us, insisting she could handle it on her own.
A year later, the truth came out. Doctors recommended surgery to remove her uterus. She joked, “Oh well, I won’t be needing it anyway,” trying to keep our spirits high. The operation went well, and we all sighed in relief — until the doctor mentioned small traces of cancerous cells that might have spread during the procedure.It was supposed to be a simple cycle of six chemotherapy sessions — “just to be safe,” they said. But one cycle turned into two, then three. Her body couldn’t take it anymore. On December 4th, 2018 — my father’s birthday — we lost her. Our world fell apart that day. Time hasn’t healed that wound, but it has taught us how to live with it.
That same year, I organized my first cancer walkathon to raise funds for her treatment. When she passed, I lost the will to continue. But years later, I found strength again — for her, and for every family fighting the same battle. Last year’s walk brought together friends, families, and survivors. Together, we raised funds, donated food, and shared stories of courage and healing at the cancer ward in Kenyatta Hospital.
Cancer doesn’t just affect patients — it touches entire families, caregivers, and communities. It reminds us to support the fighters, admire the survivors, and honour the taken.
This year, I took another step in honour of my mother and all who’ve been affected — I joined an environmental initiative in April to plant trees. It was more than just planting; it was a commitment to creating cleaner air, safer surroundings, and a healthier environment — because fresh air and a thriving planet are part of cancer prevention and recovery.
And now, as we move towards marking No Shave November 2025, I invite you to join me again — this time for a Walkathon on 15th November 2025, starting at Uhuru Gardens and ending at Karen Shopping Centre. Let’s walk in solidarity, raise awareness, and support the fight against cancer, especially men’s health awareness, during Movember.
Together, we can make a difference — because united, we are all stronger than cancer.
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