Pet cremation: The pain, grief and hard decisions when pawed loved ones die

Grief following the death of a pet is real and profound. For many families, it can mirror the pain of losing a close loved one. The attachment formed through years of companionship makes the moment of loss difficult, more so when it happens unexpectedly at home.

When a pet passes away at a veterinary clinic, professionals usually manage the next steps, including care of the remains. But when death occurs at home, owners are often faced with immediate decisions while still in shock. Knowing what to do in advance can help reduce stress during an already painful time.

The first step is to confirm that the pet has indeed passed away. If there is any uncertainty, a veterinarian should be contacted immediately. Once death is confirmed, owners need to decide how to handle the remains. This decision is both practical and personal.

In Kenya, many pet owners choose to bury their animals at home, especially in rural or suburban areas where space allows.

However, this option is not available to everyone. Urban living, rental restrictions, environmental concerns or personal preferences may make home burial impractical or undesirable.

For those seeking alternatives, pet cremation is increasingly becoming an option. Cremation allows families to honour their pets in a dignified and controlled manner, similar to how human cremation services are conducted. It can also provide a sense of closure for owners who wish to keep ashes or hold a private memorial.

Animal welfare organisations such as the Kenya Society for the Protection and Care of Animals (KSPCA) emphasise that pets are not just animals but loyal companions who walk with their owners through life’s highs and lows.

They offer unconditional affection, do not judge, and often become emotional support systems within families. The grief that follows their loss is therefore valid and deserving of empathy and support.

Dogs, cats, rabbits and other domestic animals can occupy the same emotional space as any other family member. Recognising this bond is essential when discussing end-of-life care and after-death services. Professional pet aftercare services aim to provide respectful, bespoke options that acknowledge both the emotional and practical needs of grieving owners.

There is no single right way to say goodbye to a pet. Whether through burial, cremation or another memorial choice, what matters most is that support, understanding and compassion remain crucial during this difficult transition, as families adjust to life after the loss of a beloved companion.